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Women's Safe Hub

What would make you safer?

Women already know a great deal about what keeps them safe, and what doesn't. This page sets out what the research shows about sexual violence in the United States, then asks you, anonymously, what should change.

Rape is always the responsibility of the person who commits it. We're asking because your experience should shape the solutions.

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The Scope

These aren't rare events at the edges of life. They're common, and they're often carried quietly.

Five figures, one highlighted: more than one in five women
More than 1 in 5 women in the US have experienced completed or attempted rape in their lifetimes. CDC, NISVS 2023/2024
A ring filled to just under half
Nearly half of women have experienced some form of contact sexual violence in their lifetimes. CDC, NISVS 2023/2024

CDC reports these figures as rounded fractions, and we've kept their wording. Contact sexual violence includes rape, being made to penetrate, sexual coercion, and unwanted sexual contact.

When It Begins

For most survivors, it happened when they were young. For many, it happened in childhood.

Age at first rape among female survivors A bar split into three parts: under 18, almost half; 18 to 24, bringing the total to more than four in five; 25 and older, the remainder, fewer than one in five. age 18 age 25 Before 18 almost half 18–24 over 4 in 5 by 25 25+
More than 4 in 5 female rape survivors were first raped before age 25, and almost half before they turned 18. Segment widths are approximate, based on CDC's rounded figures. CDC, NISVS 2023/2024

That means prevention can't start in adulthood. It has to reach schools, families, youth programs, and the adults who shape how young people learn to treat one another.

Who

The stranger in the dark is the image most of us were taught to fear. Most women who were raped knew the person who did it.

Relationship of perpetrator to female rape victims Current or former intimate partner, 51.1 percent. Acquaintance, 40.8 percent. Stranger, 13.8 percent. Family member, 12.5 percent. Person in a position of authority, 2.5 percent. Victims could report more than one perpetrator. Intimate partner 51.1% Acquaintance 40.8% Stranger 13.8% Family member 12.5% Person in authority 2.5%
Share of female rape victims who reported each type of perpetrator. Some women were harmed by more than one person, so the figures add up to more than 100%. CDC, NISVS 2010 Summary Report

This changes what "safety" means. Better lighting and safer transit matter. So do the places where most harm happens: relationships, homes, social circles, campuses, and workplaces, along with the systems that respond when women speak up.

The Silence

Most rapes and sexual assaults never reach the police. The reasons are usually rational ones.

Share of rape and sexual assault victimizations reported to police 2022: 21 percent reported, 79 percent not reported. 2023: 46 percent reported, 54 percent not reported. 2022 21% 2023 46% reported to police not reported
From the federal National Crime Victimization Survey. Rape and sexual assault estimates rest on small samples, so they can swing a lot from one year to the next. In both years, most victimizations went unreported. BJS, Criminal Victimization, 2023

Not reporting is not a failure on women's part. It often reflects fear of not being believed, fear of retaliation, a relationship with the person who caused harm, or doubt that reporting will lead anywhere. A safer world is one where telling someone feels possible, and is met with care.

What Works

Prevention is possible. The strongest approaches change behavior, norms, and systems, not just the choices of the people most at risk.

CDC's prevention framework, STOP SV, groups the best available evidence into five strategies:

  1. 1

    Promote social norms that protect against violence

    Bystander programs, and engaging men and boys as allies in prevention.

  2. 2

    Teach skills to prevent sexual violence

    Social-emotional learning, and education on healthy dating and relationships, starting young.

  3. 3

    Provide opportunities to empower and support girls and women

    Economic support, and leadership opportunities for girls and women.

  4. 4

    Create protective environments

    Safer schools, workplace policies that are actually enforced, and community-level changes.

  5. 5

    Support survivors to lessen harms

    Victim-centered services, treatment, and support that help prevent future harm.

CDC, STOP SV Technical Package (2016)

Research tells us what has worked in studies. It can't tell us everything women know from living their lives. That's where you come in.

Your Voice

What would make you safer? It could be a policy, a design change, something a school or employer should do, something men should do, or something no one has thought to try. Big or small, it counts.

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